sMile

if ur like 2 meet ppl, do u notice this?

do u notice tat a particular guy/gurl (i use gg for short) tat u meet everyda have "this" ability??

i believe almost onli 10 or 20% of ppl wil have "this" ability...

i met 2person this morning in the ktm, u noe, in ktm i usually observe wat ppl r doing, how they utilize their time n how they cure their boredom in the ktm... the most common thing, i dun think i need 2 tel, is the music... rite??? the get into the ktm, strap 2 their headphones

in the ears... i dun usually do tat, i dun really like tat i presume... y?? coz, i kinda hate ppl who talk wif the headphone on... it's like not respecting the person who's talking... i do put on sometimes, but, if i ever talk, i will pull it out then onli talk... opps, jus realized, it's earphone... my bad my bad.. y earphones rite?? make la a phone earing rite?, easi nia...

haha.....

so another thing tat ppl like 2 do is 2 read books,... oh, i left out 1, becoming pig aso another thing...

mostly i'll observe ppl, have a look here n there, the sceneries, sometimes i read notes (4now, i read french basic phrases la), i do sleep too... but mostly i jus look around nia la...

so, back 2 the topic, have u seen those ppl wif "this" ability...

haha, wat ability?

i believe most of us has gone through this..

the ability is tat, tat gg wil have a smile face onli... not tat gg's smiling, jus tat, gg has a pleasant face, u would like 2 look at this gg onli... not tat gg is pretty or handsome.. it's jus tat "pleasant"

then, when u c them, u would tend 2 smile too (mind u smile is contagious, but 4 this situation, i dun think contagious is the cause)

gg might not b pretty or handsome s i said... n they might not b smiling at the moment u c them... jus tat, u have a feeling of tat gg is some type of person tat is

• honest,
• innocent,
• nice,
• wonderful
• attractive (this suits well, last min thinking... haha)
• etc
• n jus wanna look at time another time...

this might b the reason... they smile wif their eyes... (i think)

b4 i continue, smiling is divided into 2 parts... the mouth n the eyes...

4 the mouth i'm sure u noe wat la?? u say "cheese"

u c the 2pictures above.. they're not really smiling in the sake of the mouth,... n it "looks" fake, but it is sincere rite?? (2 ur feel la)

so, actually wat happen is tat, there's smiling wif their "eyes"

eye's smile, called a duchenne smile is sincere smile.. if the picture u took wif ur smile tat's not nice, means u're not duchenne"ing smile... haha, if it looks nice & pleasant then u succeed in doing the duchenne smile.. get tat? sometimes u jus dun like see"ing ur face in the photo but sometimes u do rite??
it's the smile tat u give tat make the photo attactive or otherwise...

1step to determine the duchenne smile is tat..the "sincerity"... n how attractive izit...
step 2 is tat, the smile should raise the cheek n form crow's feets around the eyes.. (basically means, wrinkles...)

bad thing of this is tat, the muscles tat control tat particular smile, it's not controllable...
it's a genuine spontaneous reaction... how nice...
so to noe sincere or not, find 4 a duchenne smile.. haha...

some reasons y u should smile...

1. it's attractive
2. changes ur mood
3. it's contagious
4. release stress
5. boost ur immune sys
6. lowers bp
7. releases painkillers (endorphins) (smile when u're headache...)
8. makes ur face young
9. make u seem successfull (confident etc) those ppl who smile alot wil climb the corporate ladder faster...
10. helps u stay +ve...

when u c anybody can jus smile at them.. u can change their mood though.. trust me... smile is worth a million words...

kok soon in support of smiling to strangers.. haha... i tried a few times in the ktm.. it's fun!!!!