in the need of acquaintance

I believe, most of my frens of my age would have had a bf/gf...

Best fren good fren?? na, the more than tat relation..

At times, 4 myself or 2 most of the ppl outside there who had not have a relation yet 4 now, they are depressed of it..

I admit, there's time where..

• who 2 sms la?
• who 2 chat to?
• who 2 go out wif?
• sien la, who 2 find?
• i wanna buy clothes, who?
• wanna discuss something, who?
• now i'm alone, who teman?

lolZ, all these, come at times...

everybody would definitely prefer 2 have a relation.. go anywhere, anytime, aso got a person 2 teman..

Wat 2 do?? Just can't find the right... u noe.... right feel on some ppl... dough..

have u ever always wondered,

m i good enough 4 this person?? ai ya, i like this punya pattern, sure tak ngam wif him/her 1... if i really involve in, will it go well?

But luckily enough, these feels come jus mayb once in few months or wat...

I think i last thought of this was.. adui, alot la now i think back.. haha,

but 4 the desparately means, twice onli i think. this time and the other time where i wrote bout love (those who missed it, can click here... Basically, i wanna say something but dunno 2 who, so i write it down here..

Those who blog means? no acquaitance?? not 2 mean frens, but frens tat are deeper than frens... (bf/gf) la.. izit???

2dae, in city park, i saw a family... this dad is abit plump wif 1gurl & 2 boys... n the dad was running n his children was chasing him wif bicycles.. so i run pass them.. wow!!! so touching... haha, the joy & laughter in them..

the dad was last at 1st, but he tried his best n overtook everyone.. n he "won"..

Hmm, 4 those who still dunno, family means

father

and

mother

i

love

you...

so, back 2 the bf/gf prob.. it's worth it 2 have a relation??? lolz. i still can't find 1 tat suits me. i mean, i found, but

the prob is, i would have this thinking tat, i doesn't suit tat particular gurl... haha... lolz, guys out there, i believe u have this feelings too...

gurls out there, mayb u have thinking tat "dunno this guy can b trusted or not.." haha, rite?????

Guys are dumb i think, they dun have this feel of trustworthy, i'm not saying guys can't b trusted, jus tat guys dun think like gurls, when they get involve in a relation, they dun think "this gurl can b trusted or not???"

yoyo,

nothing de la i think,,, haha, i'm out of topic now..

oh ya, i watched alien vs monster jus now.. it was so nice!!!!!! so funny... u should go n watch it..

4 those who noe me 4 long, u would noe tat i love cinema... haha, almost there 4 once a week i think... n i sacrificed around rm500 all these yrs in cinema, not inclusive of popcorn etc, jus the tickets...

Guys, pls place comment, i dun 1 2 b like, talking 2 the blog onli, n nobody replies... haha

sMile

if ur like 2 meet ppl, do u notice this?

do u notice tat a particular guy/gurl (i use gg for short) tat u meet everyda have "this" ability??

i believe almost onli 10 or 20% of ppl wil have "this" ability...

i met 2person this morning in the ktm, u noe, in ktm i usually observe wat ppl r doing, how they utilize their time n how they cure their boredom in the ktm... the most common thing, i dun think i need 2 tel, is the music... rite??? the get into the ktm, strap 2 their headphones

in the ears... i dun usually do tat, i dun really like tat i presume... y?? coz, i kinda hate ppl who talk wif the headphone on... it's like not respecting the person who's talking... i do put on sometimes, but, if i ever talk, i will pull it out then onli talk... opps, jus realized, it's earphone... my bad my bad.. y earphones rite?? make la a phone earing rite?, easi nia...

haha.....

so another thing tat ppl like 2 do is 2 read books,... oh, i left out 1, becoming pig aso another thing...

mostly i'll observe ppl, have a look here n there, the sceneries, sometimes i read notes (4now, i read french basic phrases la), i do sleep too... but mostly i jus look around nia la...

so, back 2 the topic, have u seen those ppl wif "this" ability...

haha, wat ability?

i believe most of us has gone through this..

the ability is tat, tat gg wil have a smile face onli... not tat gg's smiling, jus tat, gg has a pleasant face, u would like 2 look at this gg onli... not tat gg is pretty or handsome.. it's jus tat "pleasant"

then, when u c them, u would tend 2 smile too (mind u smile is contagious, but 4 this situation, i dun think contagious is the cause)

gg might not b pretty or handsome s i said... n they might not b smiling at the moment u c them... jus tat, u have a feeling of tat gg is some type of person tat is

• honest,
• innocent,
• nice,
• wonderful
• attractive (this suits well, last min thinking... haha)
• etc
• n jus wanna look at time another time...

this might b the reason... they smile wif their eyes... (i think)

b4 i continue, smiling is divided into 2 parts... the mouth n the eyes...

4 the mouth i'm sure u noe wat la?? u say "cheese"

u c the 2pictures above.. they're not really smiling in the sake of the mouth,... n it "looks" fake, but it is sincere rite?? (2 ur feel la)

so, actually wat happen is tat, there's smiling wif their "eyes"

eye's smile, called a duchenne smile is sincere smile.. if the picture u took wif ur smile tat's not nice, means u're not duchenne"ing smile... haha, if it looks nice & pleasant then u succeed in doing the duchenne smile.. get tat? sometimes u jus dun like see"ing ur face in the photo but sometimes u do rite??
it's the smile tat u give tat make the photo attactive or otherwise...

1step to determine the duchenne smile is tat..the "sincerity"... n how attractive izit...
step 2 is tat, the smile should raise the cheek n form crow's feets around the eyes.. (basically means, wrinkles...)

bad thing of this is tat, the muscles tat control tat particular smile, it's not controllable...
it's a genuine spontaneous reaction... how nice...
so to noe sincere or not, find 4 a duchenne smile.. haha...

some reasons y u should smile...

1. it's attractive
2. changes ur mood
3. it's contagious
4. release stress
5. boost ur immune sys
6. lowers bp
7. releases painkillers (endorphins) (smile when u're headache...)
8. makes ur face young
9. make u seem successfull (confident etc) those ppl who smile alot wil climb the corporate ladder faster...
10. helps u stay +ve...

when u c anybody can jus smile at them.. u can change their mood though.. trust me... smile is worth a million words...

kok soon in support of smiling to strangers.. haha... i tried a few times in the ktm.. it's fun!!!!

my other part of it

yesterda i went n watched "sell out."
supposely it's a malaysian & singaporean movie...
hmm, it was boring actually, jus tat a part of it, i mean parts of it is nice...
onli malaysian or a singaporean can understand wat it says in the movie n the jokes...
if u're putting high hope on tat movie, then i suggest tat u dun go n watch ... haha

however... the soundtracks are awesome...!!! musical thingy... the drums r nice too.. hehe..

n i din break "my" own promise yet... i did buy another partner 4 the water goblet i had... so now i have 2 glasswares, which is the water goblet n i added a red wine glass..



lolz, it won't b so boring now... it's been alone 4 like a week... hehe, my next glassware is white wine glass ya... i'm still finding how 2 keep all those... still thinking..

2moro my college new sem will begin... lolz... so all the best 2 myself ya.. hehe

oh ya, try listening 2 the chinese song i've put in my blog.. it's a truely romantic song i think.. if u noe mandaring, try observing the lyrics... so wonderful..

kudos

i would like 2 try using blogspot 4 my blog... haha, last was using friendster blog
however in fs, i dun find much widgets tat i can add too... blogspot have everything... haha